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Post by Darth Wong » Mon Jan 10, 2005 9:21 pm

Hey guys (and girls), i understand some guy whom, well, let us just say he has got maybe maybe not done well for himself in life, in which he aren’t able to find a woman. The thing is that inside the desperation, he connected with somebody into the Philippines on the internet. Now here is the crazy component: he claims he’s currently consented to marry her (after just once you understand her for some months rather than having also met her once) and intends to get here in March to get married. I would personally believe that ”reckless” is definitely an understatement right here.

Anyhow, first thing that came in your thoughts had been that she desired to utilize him getting citizenship right here. But are here even greater problems him about that I should be warning? Do some of you understand of any frauds concerning this, like individuals kidnapping the unwary groom that is would-be he appears to marry this girl he is never ever met? I have been aware of that in a few full situations because of the Nigerian money-laundering scam.

I guess an optimist would argue that maybe this thing that is whole legit, but We’m too much of a cynic to get that. I believe this person is likely to get scammed or even worse. If any one of you understand of any horror tales involving this kind of thing, inform me and possibly I’m able to frighten him using them.

Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:20 am

Well, I do not have whole tales, but I would personally be REALLY carful about this (while you are already). Your buddy has absolutely absolutely absolutely nothing limiting him from going, but i might decide to try EVERYTHING feasible to have him to believe it over.

I will be 99% certain this example will likely not prove inside the benefit, just exactly how girls that are many wish to just fulfill a guy on the internet and marry him?. Most likley, she’ll dump him the moment she becomes clear and free american, or something like that else is tucked up her sleeve.

Post by smithy_dll » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:42 am

I was thinking Darth Wong ended up being canadian,

Well i might need certainly to accept using the care and presuming it really is a fraud. No proof is had by him she actually exists, wether this woman is actually a female, had been constantly a female, and extremely really really really loves him.

Whats additionally wear could be the wedding has ended here, rather than in a secure democratic spot which would not tollerate almost any mal-bahaviour.

He could be using a few risks here,

Post by erk » Tue Jan 11, 2005 8:56 am

Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 9:00 am

Well, I’m not too against internet relationship, but, he should at LEAST arrive at better know her MUCH. Exchange photos, talk from the phone, or work with a cam (at the least to ensure its a girl your to! That is talking).

But actually, internet relationship can be achieved, but we dont think you should get married after just once you understand them for a couple months.

Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:01 am

Post by Anon » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:11 am

I believe that Web Dating just works if you are into the city that is same perhaps state/region, maybe perhaps maybe not various nations. Like happens to be sa natural girl whom truly desires to proceed through with it. What amazes and scares me personally during the exact same time is that he’s had more or less a similar thing occur to him.

Brief variation: do not also think of going here to marry her/him.

Post by Fubonis » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:36 am

Fool me personally as soon as, pity on, pity for you. Fool me twice–can’t get tricked once again.

He never will if he has not learned from the first experience. Perhaps you should benefit from him before some foreigner can.

Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 6:58 am

Truth be told, after conversing with him, he generally seems to think that the blunder he fashioned with the girl that is previous in maybe perhaps not marrying her, so she felt no real dedication to him. Whatever you can perform is move your eyes.

Post by programhouze » Wed Jan 12, 2005 1:01 pm

In any event you appear at it, the man is or must certanly be ”hard up” or something like that. Personally think the ”Mail-order bride” deal is B.S. And an overall total waste of individual and time that is emotional.

Just like the other individual stated, online dating sites should be through with your very own area that is general. There was instances when individuals have met from throughout the world and married. But, less than those partners which have met inside their areas that are own.

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